Monday, August 07, 2006
Hey sunshine,
1) I'm having a migraine. For those of you who doesn't know what a migraine is, just think of it as little bugs in your brains knocking hammers all around your head. During this period, your mind's blank. The mere thought of studying makes me cringe, that's usual, but hear this, even thinking of an iced cold milk tea makes me cringe.This is how bad it is. But am I going to let the migraine control my life? No, I control the migraine, because, I know I can.
2) Have you ever gotten to know girlfriends/boyfriends who leech off their partner? Or perhaps, after getting into a relationship, their life revolves around that sole human being, and suddenly, you lost your best friend. Or perhaps your best friend has suddenly lost sight, determination and 'right' judgement and will to work for the more sustainable and important things in life. What will you choose to do? Stop, let your friend rot. Slap her in the face and wake her up with a risk of losing him/her. For me, I'd do the latter, why? You can actually question that? The mere fact that that person is my FRIEND is good enough a reason. Scrutinise me for all I care for being too independent or whatever you prefer, I detest people who depend on other people too much. Why? Being dependent means your life depends on other people. When you become too dependent, you become complacent. However, being too independent has its own shortcomings, at the end of the day, know your limit, set your balance, seek help instead of being too arrogant for your own good. Going back to the topic of leeching and blind partners, give the reason of love a rest. If you're still using that lame reason, maybe it's time for you to take a breather and take a look at what real love is. Let me share a little with you, real love does not screw up your life, neither does it prioritise your life, and make you neglect other more important things in life. When you find yourself drifting away from who you really are, what you should be doing, find strength and rectify the problem. If this a simple matter you can't even carry out, let me crown you a weak person and forget about being successful till you fall hard and learn.
3) Time is running short, I've no time to worry, shed tears, spend time getting myself involved in friendship problems. Here's to all who's facing difficulties right not, don't become bitter, but become better.
With much love.
the time is 5:43 PM
Hey sunshine,
1) I'm having a migraine. For those of you who doesn't know what a migraine is, just think of it as little bugs in your brains knocking hammers all around your head. During this period, your mind's blank. The mere thought of studying makes me cringe, that's usual, but hear this, even thinking of an iced cold milk tea makes me cringe.This is how bad it is. But am I going to let the migraine control my life? No, I control the migraine, because, I know I can.
2) Have you ever gotten to know girlfriends/boyfriends who leech off their partner? Or perhaps, after getting into a relationship, their life revolves around that sole human being, and suddenly, you lost your best friend. Or perhaps your best friend has suddenly lost sight, determination and 'right' judgement and will to work for the more sustainable and important things in life. What will you choose to do? Stop, let your friend rot. Slap her in the face and wake her up with a risk of losing him/her. For me, I'd do the latter, why? You can actually question that? The mere fact that that person is my FRIEND is good enough a reason. Scrutinise me for all I care for being too independent or whatever you prefer, I detest people who depend on other people too much. Why? Being dependent means your life depends on other people. When you become too dependent, you become complacent. However, being too independent has its own shortcomings, at the end of the day, know your limit, set your balance, seek help instead of being too arrogant for your own good. Going back to the topic of leeching and blind partners, give the reason of love a rest. If you're still using that lame reason, maybe it's time for you to take a breather and take a look at what real love is. Let me share a little with you, real love does not screw up your life, neither does it prioritise your life, and make you neglect other more important things in life. When you find yourself drifting away from who you really are, what you should be doing, find strength and rectify the problem. If this a simple matter you can't even carry out, let me crown you a weak person and forget about being successful till you fall hard and learn.
3) Time is running short, I've no time to worry, shed tears, spend time getting myself involved in friendship problems. Here's to all who's facing difficulties right not, don't become bitter, but become better.
With much love.
the time is 5:43 PM